If there is one big thing that I am taking away from my 40s (so far) is discovering what makes me truly happy. Remarkably, what makes me happy in my 40s are the very things that made me happy as a child. I guess we try our best to grow up so fast that we end up in the very same place we started. Essentially, learning that escaping is actually a way of boomerang right back to who we really are—reconnecting to our true selves!
Drawing, and taking pictures, and getting lost while exploring have all been things I have enjoyed. Recently while exploring a place I’ve been to a dozen times throughout my life, I came upon a little pond covered in lily pads. It reminded me of a show I adored as a child, The Green Forest, and in an instant I was brought back to those childhood moments—I was consumed with joy! Who knew lily pads could be so exciting! I snapped this picture…
This is the essence of life—rediscovery! Finding joy in the small and big things that we may have seen a thousand times, but perhaps with a new lens. For example, my daughter, whose artistic skills far surpass my own, was struggling to draw a realistic looking dimple. I asked if I could give it a try and found myself excited at the challenge. I remember drawing—and struggling to draw—this or that and trying a thousand times to make something look perfect (in my eyes). The joy of drawing and creating would bring me such peace. It was a creative outlet that I have lost over the years. Seeing that dedication and passion for drawing in my daughter is immensely satisfying.
It sort of feels like this is a time to slow down and take stock. Yes, there is still a lot of life to live but somehow our 40s seems like a universal time to look back—to reminisce and remember our joys. I hope this week you find your ‘lily pad’ moment and discover the essence of who you really are!
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